The Pleasure Of Sex And Role Play
The pleasure of sex and role play can sound pretty uncomfortable or meaningless to some adults. In reality it helps heighten sexual arousal, as two people are now involved in playing a part as it would in playing a game. Dressing up in character helps people leave the old behind bring new insights of a person that must meet the characters personality. How many times do people find themselves fantasizing about a love scene with their doctors, nurses, or co-workers? Even though this would not happen in real life for most people, the fantasy excites, and arouses hidden feelings that cannot be freely expressed.
In role playing, sexual advances are easier to express without the inhibitions of the regular housewife or husband role. The scenario changes in your mind and body, placing you in an atmosphere that is not only romantic, but in a place where anything goes, free from judgment and failure. In character, you are in command to do as you have fantasized about, unable to act out your feelings on the spot.
Partners learn to role play and feel comfortable in their costumes and characters. It may take a little time to get used to, until you learn to place your mind in the fantasy. The sooner your mind sets free, the sooner your partner will also start to experience how real the fantasy is starting to feel. This will also help your partner play their part better as they emerge their feeling into the scenario.
The pleasure of sex is indulging in each other’s fantasy and arousing feeling that feels naughty yet pleasurable to the body and mind. For first time role players it might not feel like you can actually get into the role playing immediately. Sometimes it takes time, and on the other hand it might be an immediate pleasure to have sex with a character you never dreamed possible. Try to role play characters that are exciting to both and not just one partner, it works better that way. Enjoy the game, and don’t rush to the finale, remember it is a game that arouses the senses; time has nothing to do with it. The game should end when the time feels right, and both players have reached the ecstasy of their fantasy. Keep the game safe, sexy, and exciting, by changing characters and fantasies that will spark the pleasure of having sex.